Hello and welcome to 2017! This is the first post I’ve written so far this year so I want to make it a good one. I spent a lot of time thinking about what to write and I really had some trouble. You see I try to be honest with everyone. I try to be honest with what I’ve seen working with our members and what I’ve experienced myself. I try to do that while understanding that everyone is the ultimate expert on themselves. I may know more about how glute activation affects your lower back position but you know more about the struggles you face every day. I can’t know more about that than you do.
I could write something about how this is going to be a great year so LET’S GET GOING but I want to “keep it real” today and let you know where I’m coming from.
2016 was a tough year for me and my family. There were certainly some wonderful moments (my parents moving here from Philadelphia stands out as a highlight) but there were many tough times and to be perfectly honest, 2017 seems like it’s also going to be a very challenging year.
So often, things look easy from the outside. When you bump around Facebook and Instagram it looks like everyone is always doing great. Always smiling and doing amazing things. They’ve got it all together. Well, I’m here to tell you that that’s not always the case.
Many people might assume that as a trainer, getting my workouts in is easy for me. Well, here’s a little secret: I love exercise. I LOVE IT! I love it so much I built my entire career around it. I love it so much that 90% of what I think about, other than my family, is exercise in some form.
Having said that, with the way some of 2016 went and how it seems like 2017 may go, exercise for me has been a challenge. As much as I love it, I haven’t exactly been chomping at the bit to to hit the gym over the past 6 or 8 months. The quality of my training has definitely taken a step back. My strength is not where it was a year ago. I have some tweaks here and there that I know are a result of some of the stress I’ve been feeling. Believe me, it would be very easy for me to just take some time off.
The point of mentioning all this is that I’m someone who freaking LOVES this stuff and even I have trouble with it sometimes!
And I haven’t even talked about eating!
I think the way I get through it is that I just know that I love it even if it doesn’t exactly feel that way at that exact moment. If you have kids you know exactly what I mean by that. I know that if I make some excuse to skip it, I’m going to feel like I let myself down. I know that I’ll feel good and accomplished when I’m done.
I still love my kids?
Will I feel frustrated after I miss a lift I’ve hit in the past? Sure. Will I feel frustrated when I don’t feel like I have the energy I should? Sure. Will I feel frustrated when I feel that tweak coming on again? Sure. Will it cross my mind to miss just “one day”? Absolutely! But I’d rather go through these things than not because I know at the end of it all I’ll be happy I did.
I know this post is a little different from what I usually write, but I thought it might help some people to know that even I, your friendly neighborhood personal trainer, has trouble with things sometimes. You’re not alone. Now let’s get our head together and do everything we can to make this year as good a year as we can!
P.S. To help with this I’m going to have my Goal Setting Guide available just until the end of the week. It’s free and it will help you with every step you need to set goals that you WILL reach and will also help you put together the plan to do just that.
Once again, it’s free and you can get it here:
Goal Setting Guide <===Click Here
Have a great day!